There are a lot of options when it comes to vibrators. They could be used in many different ways - solo or partnered, inside the vagina or outside the body on the clitoris, labia, or other pleasure zones. This article targets vibrator options for the clitoris owner. It could be helpful to know how you would like to use your vibrator when you are deciding on something to buy. This article will help guide you in your decision making.
Does a vibrator enhance orgasm?
It can! This is a preference and for some it could elevate their orgasm to the next level. Some people choose to use them occasionally or only for solo practice. Some people only with partnered sex. It is really up to you.
Additional benefits
Vibrators could be used in preparation for penetrative sex for people who are experiencing pelvic or vaginal pain. The introduction to gentle vibration to painful areas could help relieve muscle spasms and bring blood flow to the area. If you are experiencing painful intercourse, consult with your pelvic health provider to discuss options for you.
Vibrator Basics
No matter how or where you use your vibrator there are some standard basics including size, materials, speed, intensity, and rhythm. Every body is different and there is not one right setting to use for one particular goal. If you’ve never used a vibrator, you may not know what settings you are looking for in a vibrator. But if you know what type of touch you like in non-vibrator solo or partnered play look at the specifics of the settings to make sure you could get to the intensity (or non-intensity) that you want.
I have chosen to label what I would normally call the pros and cons of each setting as “preference” for this article. This is because what might be a pro to one person may be a con to another and vice versa.
Materials
Material preference is a personal choice. Most vibrators either come with a silicone covering or are plastic but some are metal. It is important to confirm that the materials that you are buying are considered body safe. Honeydew makes this part easy as all their products are body safe.
If shopping elsewhere, confirm this and look for vibrators that are phthalate, fragrance, and latex free. Remember if you have a silicone vibrator, you cannot use it with a silicone based lubricant.
All of these materials offer smooth, low friction insertion.
Preference: It is up to you! If you really enjoy using a silicone based lubricant, buy a vibrator of a different material. Not comfortable with plastics? Try a metal option. Some silicone vibrators offer so squish the the tip. This may be more desirable than something more rigid.
Size and Shape
Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes varied by how they are to be used. If you are looking to use a vibrator inside of the vagina there are some considerations to make regarding the circumference, length, and tip of the vibrator.
Vibrators in which you insert into the vagina often have a tapered tip and a gradual increase in circumference size. This increases ease of insertion and is great for a smooth entrance into the vagina.
Straight
A straight vibrator has no curves and is straight in shape.
Preference: A straight vibrator stimulates straight into the vagina and this may be more pleasurable for the person who gets a lot of pleasure from pressure near or around the cervix (The cervix is at the top of the vagina). These vibrators could be moved around for increased sensation to different walls of the vagina but could be hard to reach pleasurable spots around the corner.
Check out Blush Novelties Limited Addiction Slim Vibe for a tapered and straight shape.
Notice the tapered tip of the vibrator. This is a pretty standard size for a vibrator with 5.75 inches of insertable length and 3.25 inch girth at its largest point.
Curved
The vagina is naturally curved and a curved vibrator follows the shape of the vagina.
Preference: A curved shape has an added benefit of offering more direct stimulation to the top wall of the vagina where the well known region of the “g-spot” is located. The “g-spot" aligns with the vestibular bulbs of the clitoris and it is likely stimulation here is stimulating the clitoris from inside the vagina.
Read my article Cliterally Aware for more information for clitoris anatomy.
Curved vibrators can have a tapered end, a flattened end, or a more bulbous tapered end.
Preference: A tapered tip offers more direct touch while a more flattened or bulbous end has a wider, less direct area of stimulation.
Check out Calexotics Obsession Passion
Note the more bulbous tapered tip of this curved vibrator.
Speed and Intensity
This is how fast and intense the vibration occurs. Vibrators come in both single-speed settings and multi-speed settings.
Single Speed Vibrators
Single speed vibrators offer one setting. Turn them on and off they buzz.
Preference: These are great option for people who do not want or like variation in the stimulus they are receiving. They are easy to you; no reading the manual on this one. Typically lower in cost (not always), this might be a preferred travel vibrator or one you keep with you just in case the time is right to use it.
Check out the Gaia Eco Bullet for a single speed option.
Multi-Speed Vibrators
Multi-speed vibrators offer multiple settings of speed and intensity typically starting with a low level vibration and increasing in speed for a more intense vibration.
Preference: These allow you to change your experience towards orgasm. You could start light and increase as you get closer or edge an orgasm by turning vibration down. The options are endless. If you are unsure of the intensity that you like, this is a great option to purchase as it gives you options to start with.
Check out the Dame Arc for a multi-speed option.
Note the more flattened tip of this curved vibrator.
Rhythm
Rhythm is the pattern of the vibration that your vibrator is making. It could include anything from steady and consistent vibration to varied with an element of surprise. If you purchase a single speed vibrator this is not an option. Read your product specifics to see if your product comes in different modes if you want this option.
Waterproof
Did you know you could bring your vibrator into the water? Well, only if it is waterproof. If you think you would like the use your vibrator in the shower or water make sure to look for this feature.
Vibrator Types
This is not an extensive list. Vibrator companies are reinventing the wheel when is comes to toys. New shapes and designs continue to come on the market. A lot of these options are standard shapes but a lot of them have subtle design changes to help with increased pleasure for the clitoris owner.
Outside Only Vibrators
Bullets
Bullet vibrators are small bullet shared vibrators which can be used on and around the clitoris and just inside the vagina.
Preference: These are sleek, small, and easy to travel with. They can offer a direct pressure onto the clitoris.
Check out the Le Wand Bullet for a bullet option.
Clitoris and Vulvar
These vibrators come in specific shapes and sizes to assist with both global and specific clitoral stimulation. They often come in unique shapes.
Check out Calexotics Panty Teaser for a wearable option.
This is an option that fits in your underwear and could be used handsfree for external pleasure.
Check out Dame Eva Hands-Free for another wearable option.
This vibrator has arms that fit in between the labia minora and majora. It could be worn as you masturbate or while having partnered penetrative sex.
Simple variations to internal vibrators are being made for improved clitoral stimulation. Scroll back up to Dame’s Arc to see the tapered but flat tip that let you get right to the clitoris.
Internal Vibrators
Internal vibrators are inserted into the vagina. They do not have to be used exclusively inside of the vagina but could be placed around the vulva and clitoris for just as much pleasure as clitoris and vulvar specific vibrators.
Preference: This could be a good option if you get a lot of pleasure from internal penetration. If you have never used a vibrator, you might be surprised how an internal vibrator could boost your vaginal orgasm.
Combinations Vibrators
Some vibrators offer both internal and external stimulation. There is the classic rabbit shape and wearable options that you could use both solo and with a partner. This will provide stimulation to the clitoris on the inside and on the outside of the vagina as well as other internal pleasure zones.
Preference: This offers an intense depth of stimulation that may take your orgasms over the top. For those who don’t like as intense of stimulation, this may be too much for you.
Check out Voodoo Money Bunny Rabbit for vibration from the inside and out.
One article could simply not cover all of the ways to play. Experiment and try new things. Shop for a new shape or size. Buy a vibrator because you think it is pretty. Try it alone or with a partner. As always, happy exploring!
